Posts Tagged ‘advice dating internet’

What it feels like for a Woman using online personals Part Four

Saturday, November 7th, 2009

Women tell me all the time they’re dying for a guy to stand up and be DIFFERENT.

Here’s some tips to help you:

1) K.I.S.S.

Keep it simple. People are busy these days and the last thing someone wants to read is a 5-page email containing everything about you.

2) BE DIFFERENT

After getting HUNDREDS of emails, don’t you think she can spot something thats been sent over and over. Once you understand what she’s dealing with, its easier to send her something different than every other guy.

3) Compliments = Needy.

If you’re emailing women complimenting them, you’re probably coming off the OPPOSITE as you think you are. When you compliment a woman via email, (something every OTHER guy does) you’re conveying that you’re a NEEDY guy.

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What it feels like for a Woman using online personals Part Three

Friday, November 6th, 2009

HERE’S WHY SHE DIDN’T REPLY.

1.) Maybe she’s already met 3 guys who beat you to the punch, and wants to see how things pan out. Early bird gets the worm.

2.) Maybe she read your email, but your photos and profile were missing a few CRITICAL things, and she didn’t reply. (hint: it’s much more than just a photo)

3.) Maybe she has specific criteria for what she’s looking for, (some women when getting a large volume of emails get EVEN MORE selective with whom they reply to.)

SO, WHAT ARE YOU DOING WRONG?

If you think you should compliment her, and tell her all the reasons why she should reply, you’re actually conveying all the reasons why she SHOULDN’T.

When you compliment a woman you give her higher value, Higher value than you, and what happens is you are in effect looking up to her.

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