How To Flirt With A Girl Online With The Attention Deficit Method
Hope you’re doin awesome. Want to learn how to flirt with a girl online?
I am constantly relaxing at the beach using dating sites to meet women.
Anyways, I’ve been messin’ around on some of these dating sites lately and had some pretty good success with this strategy accidentally found that I call “The Attention Deficit Method.”
If you wanna learn how to flirt with a girl online, then pay close attention.
Almost all women on these dating sites, love the attention, you know it – I know it. In fact, i’m sure you’ve seen a bunch of girls online who strut around like wannabe models… they LOVE attention from men, and they’re getting more than enough to satisfy their ego.
But not from you. (anymore)
Here’s The First Step
So, to begin with, do a quick search and take all the women you wanna meet this week, and add them to your favorites list – but DO NOT message them. (every important).
Whats going to happen is this: Some of these women are going to wonder why you put them on your list and haven’t messaged them yet. I mean think about it. the girl’s ego is ballooning, because if she’s at least halfway decent looking, she’s been hit on by a platoon of fools and we all know how much women like attention.
(most guys would be messaging them 2-3 times a day begging for a reply).
In fact, many women I’ve talked to have told me it absolutely drives them crazy when a guy they might be interested in doesn’t message them right away. When you do this, right off the bat you’re confusing to her and sending mixed signals, which makes you different than the rest of the guys out there messaging her.
Aha, now we’re talking!
At this point something interesting usually happens… if you don’t message them, SOME of the women on your favorites list are going to either wink at you or message you. (I was getting more winks than messages).
This gives you the perfect opportunity to bust on the girls with some C+F humor to break the ice. Just make sure you’re not coming off angry, most guys use too much cocky and not enough funny, and as a result, especially online, women see it as you’re angry.
Onward. Part two of this method involves you actually messaging the women on your favorites list, the cool thing is because of the “circumstances”, we now have a cool ‘angle’ to use that’ll break the ice really well.
Here’s What To Do Next
After you’ve added women to your favorites list, one of 3 things is gonna happen… She’s either going to wink at you, send you a message or not send you a message.
If she messages you, then just continue using the IID email system, templates and move to the next step. Here’s what to send in the other 2 situations:
If they Wink: Thanks… are you shy? lol
If you don’t get a message: I’m not sure about you… you seem kinda shy. lol
You’ll notice these emails are short.
DO NOT BE FOOLED BY HOW EASY THIS LOOKS.
Just humor me and give it a shot. I guarantee you’ll get responses.
Now obviously she knows she’s not shy and you know she’s not shy, but calling a girl shy is kinda like calling a guy unathletic… no guy wants to be seen as unathletic, just like no girl wants to be seen as shy.
She gets 20-100 emails PER DAY, EVERY DAY from guys using all kinds of lines, trying too hard and not being real.
Instead of being the just another guy who’s trying to get something from her, you’re percieved as a guy who ‘gets it’ rather than some guy looking to pickup.
From there, you’ll start conversations with women online and I’m pretty sure you can figure out the rest.
This has worked really well for me and my friends lately and I’m pretty sure it’ll work well for you too. (I’m not a psychic obviously)
And stuff like this that’s worked for lots of other people will probably work for you too …if you put in the effort.
See …that’s the key word there.
See, with a lil’ “effort”, you can do anything you want.
Add in a little “determination” and you’re damn near unstoppable.
Now get out there and take what’s yours and let me know how you’re doing with this. Leave me updates in the comments below.
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