Internet Dating – Don’t Make These Mistakes on a First Date

By Dave M.




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10010123Since all my friends know me as ‘The internet dating guru’ they ALWAYS try to bounce ideas off me or try to ask me for some first date tips and get my opinions about dates they went on.


This is between them asking me how many dates I’ve been on for the week. (I think they live vicariously thru me)

I don’t blame them for trying to get help, I mean what guy wants to have lousy results with women and dating?

You’re investing your time, money and emotions and if you’re going to do it, you want to get the best results possible.

It really is no fun when you are always frustrated, feeling helpless because you don’t know what you’re doing wrong and you don’t know what to do.

It used to drive me absoutely insane because I was never getting the results I wanted with women and dating.

This email is from a close friend of mine.

Let me give you some background on this guy… He’s swedish, lives in sweden and is a GIANT.

He’s not really a giant, its just that this guy is like 6 foot 6.  To top it off he’s actually a very good looking guy… when he lived near me in the states, we’d go out and this guy would ALWAYS get women checking him out but he’d NEVER do anything about it.

So what’s this guys problem?

He’s VERY shy. I mean VERY. You’d never guess because this guy looks like he walked out of a Prada magazine ad or something.

He’s into heavy metal and his idea of getting dressed up to go out is wearing sketcher sneakers, a t-shirt and jeans.

We’re chatting via instant messenger (its a great way to stay in touch with friends that don’t live nearby)

He showed me pictures of this girl he was speaking with that he met on some Swedish dating site… My jaw literally DROPPED to the floor!

This girl was absolutely gorgeous.

I’m talking like a 10. Imagine a tall, thin, really exotic DARK haired looking girl.

She was THAT hot. (Everything they say about Swedish women is 100% true.)

Next, my friend writes to me about their date.

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