Internet Dating – What to Know Before You Pick Up the Phone Part 1

By Dave M.




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“Before you pick up the phone … you’ve got to know this …”

What to do and say to turn a girls phone number into a woman you want to date and who’s dying to be with you

So you finally got her phone number from your online dating efforts. Congratulations! But beware – your next steps are the most critical because you’ll actually talk to her for the first time. This is not the time to be haphazard. It’s the time to have a game plan.

Remember when famous tennis star Andre Agassi said, “You never get a second chance to make a first impression.”

That couldn’t be truer on the first phone call to her. What you say and how you come across on the phone will make all the difference in whether or not you end up on a date with a woman you want to be with.

One of the biggest mistakes most guys make is to try to impress her when they get on the phone. But that’s not your goal here. She gave you her phone number which tells you she’s impressed. Trying to impress her at this point will be a waste of your time.

You definitely want to make a good first impression or she may be the one hanging up on you. There are many things you do and don’t want to say for sure.

But what you’re really trying to achieve is to feel her out to see if she’s someone you want to date.

No matter what, you’ve got to have a game plan so you’re in control. In this first phone call, you need to see if you can talk to her … if there’s any chemistry. What you need to determine is if YOU want the date; not just her deciding whether she’ll go out with you or not.

Next, why seeing if you can talk to her is so important.

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