Internet Dating – What to Know Before You Pick Up the Phone Part 2

By Dave M.




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If she’s easy to talk to, you’ll get a better feel for her personality.

Believe me, you don’t want to waste your time on a date where you feel like you’re talking to a brick wall.

And you certainly don’t want to be hating life on a date that lasts for hours when, in the first few seconds, you could tell she isn’t your type. Landing yourself in this situation makes for a very long, uncomfortable interaction when you could be out with the girl you really want.

I’ve got so many dates and so many phone numbers that if I’m not digging a girl on the phone, I definitely don’t want to go out with her.

Think of the phone as the “bridge” to getting the woman you want in front of you on a date.

Limit your first phone call to 15 minutes. That’s just enough time to get a gut feeling on if you like her or not, and whether her personality clicks with yours. If you feel she does, make the date. If she feels the connection over the phone too, then she’ll say yes.

If either one or both of you don’t click on the phone, then this date shouldn’t happen. Consider your precious time saved and move on to the next one.

Figuring out if you click and if you want to date her is the goal of the phone call – that’s it.

If you decide she is someone you want to date, before you hang up, you also want to get across that you’re a very busy guy. You’re a guy with a life … a desirable guy … a guy who lots of girls would want to date

Next, why you should always end the call first.

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