Strip Club Seduction Secrets: How To Bang The Hottest Stripper In The Club (For Free!)
Guest Post By Dean Cortez
Yet for all of the exceptionally classy, educated and beautiful women I’ve hooked up with, I will always have a fondness for strippers.
You might wonder why.
After all, I’m a professional pickup artist who has banged hotties from Toronto to Tokyo, from Boston to Brazil, from Miami to Moscow.
But trust me, I’ve got my reasons.
Let Me Run Down Some Undisputable Facts About Exotic Dancers:
- Strippers have killer bodies
- Strippers are a blast to party with (Charlie Sheen, if you’re reading this, you know what I’m talking about)
- Strippers are sexually uninhibited, and 93% of them are bisexual (yes, I did the math)
- Strippers approach and flirt with YOU.
Yes, I realize their intent (at first) is to get you to blow your money on lap dances. They’re going to try to run their “sales routine” on you. But if you learn how to use a few clever tactics, you can skip the lap dances and connect with strippers on a real level.
From there, you can use a series of conversational techniques to build “sexual chemistry” and get a stripper to meet you outside of the club, after she finishes work—and then get her back to your place—where she’ll show you her BEST moves, free of charge.
Just imagine a sexually charged atmosphere where you’re surrounded by hot, nearly-naked women.
The alcohol is flowing, kick-ass music is pumping, and every one of these girls is competing for the chance to hang out with YOU.
Welcome To The Strip Club
This means he’s going to fork over his cash for cock-teasing lap dances, outrageously overpriced drinks, and superficial conversations with strippers who view him as nothing more than an ATM machine—from which she will withdraw money to pay her bills (and perhaps support her druggie musician boyfriend).
Once they drain one machine, they know there’s another one just around the corner.
But guys like myself, who’ve figured out the “strip club game,” view these places very differently…
When I enter a strip club, I see an amazing target-rich environment filled with sexy, available girls.
(I also tell my students that strip clubs are an awesome place to hone your pickup and flirting skills, and a way to become comfortable hanging out with extremely hot women.)
Yeah, I know the girls are looking to get inside your wallet. It’s their job.
And this is why you’ve got to flip the script, frame yourself as an INSIDER instead of a “chump customer,” and then use a series of techniques and routines to arrange to get inside her “stripper brain”…push the right emotional buttons …and make her want to see you after she finishes her shift.
So For Now, Let Me Give You My
Ten Tips For Strip Club Success:
#1. Enter the strip club with your head held high, and radiating confidence: You gotta know exactly how to deflect “lapdance requests” in a clever, funny way—and then, get her to sit down with you so that you connect with her on a real level and get her reveal things about herself she would never tell a customer.
Strippers spend most of their time making small talk with boring, lonely men. Once you start using the Teases, Hooks, and Advanced Conversation Tactics that I explain in my book, she’ll forget that she’s on duty. She’ll see you as a super-confident, playful, charming dude who she wants to hang out with—away from the club.
#2 When you enter the strip club, make your way to a table, or take a seat at the bar. Never lurk or mill around as if you’re unsure of where to sit. And never sit on “pervert row,” which is how the girls refer to the seats next to the stage. Those seats are strictly for CHUMP CUSTOMERS who want to get close to the women without having to buy lap dances.
#3. When a hot stripper approaches you, don’t buy a dance. Use a “deflection tactic.” One of my favorites, “Naw, I’m cool, I’m here to see my friend Lisa. Have a seat, your feet must be killing you in those heels…”
With this answer, I sound like an insider AND I’m getting her to sit down so I can start running my conversational routines on her.
As for “my friend Lisa,” it doesn’t matter if this person actually exists. In a large club, the strippers won’t all know each other. Besides, they all have two names: their real name, and their “stage name.”
The point is, you’re making it sound like you’re NOT a customer who is here to ogle women and buy lap dances. Instead of “Lisa,” you could mention your friend “Mike the DJ” or “Eddie the bartender.”
One of the keys to strip club success is building a “social network” in the club, so that you know all of the key people who work there. By knowing them by name, the strippers will automatically put you in the “non-customer” category.)
#4. Once you’re sitting down with her, don’t touch her. Don’t stare at her tits. Maintain eye contact. And never comment on how hot she is; if anything, call her “cute.” (“I have to say Jennifer, not only are you the cutest girl here, but you seem to have a really cool personality…”)
#5. Break her out of her routine. Dancers, like salesmen, have canned routines that they use to make customers feel comfortable and ready to spend money. When she asks you your name, or where you’re from, ignore it. Go into your OWN routine and control the conversation. The idea is to get her out of “work mode” and into “laidback chat mode.”
#6. Respect her profession. Never refer to what she does as “stripping”; the term to use for her is “dancer.” Say (or imply) that you’ve dated dancers before and demonstrate familiarity with her profession.:“It’s too bad I swore off dating dancers, because I can tell you and I would get along. I get the sense there’s more to you than meets the eye…”
Or, “You must have some funny stories from working here. My ex girlfriend was a dancer and she used to tell me about the crazy customers she had to deal with…”
#7. Befriend the staff: doormen, waitresses, DJs, managers, owner, etc. When you visit, staff members should know and greet you. This gives you high social value in the eyes of the dancers. When they see you talking to other people who work there, they see you as an “insider” rather than a chump customer. I can show you a super-easy routine for striking up fast friendships with people—besides the dancers—who work in the clubs.
#8. Don’t try to use these tactics during “peak hours.” If it’s a busy Saturday night, the girls are going to be hustling for money and they’ll be less willing to sit down with you and hang out if you aren’t spending cash. Go on slow nights (and afternoons) when there aren’t a lot of customers vying for their attention.
#9. During the conversation, apply the “conversation control” tactics that I explain in my Strip Club Seduction program. This means you’re going to tease her in a playful way and ask penetrating questions that prompt her to give thoughtful answers. Every step of the way, you’ll frame yourself as a “non-customer” that understands her, and the way the stripper game works.
#10. It might take a few visits for you to “close” the dancer you like (getting her number, or meeting her after her shift). If you’re not buying dances and she has to go, encourage her to go make money. I’ll say something like “I can see there a lot of lonely guys in here who’d love to pay for your company. It was cool to meet you, I’ll text you later.” And then I’ll use my “phone number close” to get her contact information so that later that night, I can meet up with her away from the club.
Once you’ve got her digits, exit the club. Don’t keep hanging around.
A guy who stays in a strip club for too long becomes seen as a loser customer.
My normal strip club routine is to go to the club, chat with a few girls, get their contact information, and leave. Then, I’ll use the texting tactics that I explain in the Strip Club Seduction book to meet up with one of the girls (or two of them!) later.
I put together a short, Free video that explains some of my most lethally effective strip club seduction tactics. This is an easy-to-learn, step-by-step system that you can start using TONIGHT