Internet Dating – The Single Most Important Skill A Man Must Master – Outside the Bedroom Pt 4

By Dave M.




Discuss 2

The keys to flirting are practice, originality, and the know-how to play off of any situation that comes up between you in a sincere but intense way.

Always play the gentleman with manners out of respect for a woman … at least at first until there’s permission to be bolder and cross over into other zones.

In the context of flirting, both of you can loosen up faster and laugh more easily. The trick is to know how to draw her closer and closer to you until she’s the one who can’t take the sexual tension any longer … and must have you.

The sky’s the limit with how far you can take this … but it works … eventually … sooner or later … every time … all the way to the bedroom.

It can start on the phone or in person. You can use your eyes, words, tone of voice, a little laugh, a light touch, or a rough one, if appropriate.

It’s in the way you sit, walk, tickle her, tell her stories, jokes, tease … Whatever it is, it’s what says to her … you are worth me paying attention to you in a way no one else has before. That’s the trick.

Earlier I promised to unveil one on my foolproof flirting techniques … works every time when you’re on the first few dates. Pay attention to how this technique plants the vision of you two in the future. You’ll get to see her early reaction to the idea of you as a possible couple. That’s good information to have, eh?

What you do is to make her your new girlfriend and then come up with a reason to break up with her.

First, look at her like you’ve discovered something really breath-taking about her. You’ll need to look for things she’s wearing or has with her or listen for really cool things she may say.

For example, maybe you notice she’s wearing stunning earrings. Or, maybe she says something that you can pick up on and say, “Wow, you’ve got great taste in jewelry/movies/art/music/food/etc….and then you say…

“I’m making you my new girlfriend.” You can now officially tell your friends I’m yours, you have my permission to kiss me anytime/anywhere, we can hold hands while we walk on the beach, and I’m game to watch chick flicks together.”

Then I pause and let it sink in. At this point she’s usually giggling or blushing. Then I turn it up another notch and say “Wait … how tall you are?”

I wait for her respond and then I say, “You’re 5’6? Well, I hate to be the bearer of bad news but my cut-off is 5’6 and 1/4th. You missed it by 1/4th of an inch.

I’m going to have to break up with you. Don’t worry; it’s not you it’s me.”

At this point she so giddy and disappointed that this flirtatious game has ended. This is pure pleasure to see – in advance – just how much she likes the idea of being yours. This flirting technique is just plain fun for both of you … play with it and make it your own.

When you’re a seasoned flirter, a woman will give you her attention because very few guys are confident enough to flirt. But now, you can.

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2 Comments to Internet Dating – The Single Most Important Skill A Man Must Master – Outside the Bedroom Pt 4

  1. Hey everyone, greetings from Australia. Does anyone have any advice about staying out of the “Friend Zone” with girls? I’m really tired of women telling me they “just want to be friends.”

    Comment by Micheal Winkels — @ 4:08 AM

  2. Hey everyone, greetings from Australia. I’m wondering if you have any advice on staying out of the “Friend Zone” with women? I’m really tired of girls telling me they “just want to be friends.”

    Comment by Moshe Olexa — @ 8:07 PM

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