What is The Best Way To Ask A Girl Out? (Answered)

By Dave M.




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The best way to ask a girl out is to just ask her in a completely natural way.

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A “yes” won’t always be guaranteed in the process, because there are there are several factors that affect the girl’s decision.

In any setting she looks for the social value in a man.

For example, if both of you work in the same office, she might know a little about you. All girls notice the “manly” qualities in their coworkers. If you are a nerd or a perv then she would even know that too.

If you do not have much of a presence in your office, try getting to know a bunch of people around you.

Expand your social circle, little by little. Try to initiate talk with people every single day. Find out who are the cool guys or girls in your office and strike a friendship with them.

Eventually your coworkers will get to know you. Your confidence and social value also will increase naturally. Then, it becomes much easier for you to start a conversation with the girls you like.

During these conversations, you can ask her out.

The Best Way To Ask A Girl Out?

The best way to a girl out is to make small talk with her and try to get her to open up.

You can also try to make her laugh and pay attention to her.

If the conversation is going great and the she seems to be enjoying the conversation ask her out.

IMO… the best way to ask a girl out is just look into her eyes and with a smile say: “We should go out sometime…”

Sometimes when you ask a girl out, she will respond positively while sometimes she might come up with an excuse.

All good either way. As a man you should be able to handle the situation quickly and move on.

Give her time and believe that it’s not the end of the road. Smile at her and act as if nothing happened… you can even try making her laugh.

And of course, you can ask her out again after several days, who knows, maybe she’ll say “yes”.

Eventually you will find the best way to ask a girl out. A way that works best for YOU.

First Date Ideas

Your sole intention on your first date should be to get to know the girl you are with.

Pay attention to whatever she has to say and observe her actions and learn about her likes and dislikes. Remember, she is also observing and judging you by your behavior, so put your best foot forward.

One piece of advice I can give is you want to avoid thinking of sleeping with the girl you are with.

You see, “seduction” requires time and if you are not patient, then you would blow your chances with her.

Make sure the girl you are with is having fun and let her know that you are having fun with her too.

This sets the stage for future dates.

If you have paid attention to the girl then you should also have an idea on which places to take her on your next date.

Pitfalls You Must Avoid When Asking A Girl Out

During your first date you should NOT shower the girl with too much attention or complements, doing so would only make her sense your insecurity.

Any man who has an active lifestyle won’t be making a single girl his center of attraction; instead he will only want her to be a part of it.

A guy who does not have much luck with girls will only complement her to the core, thinking that this would cause her to stay with him.

This type of guys would continuously text her, praise her and even sacrifice their self-worth for her.

Avoid this type of behaviors at all cost because you are only killing your chances with her.

After your first date you should keep your contact with the girl to a minimum. Call her after a few days or week and tell her that you were busy with something. If you need to text her, then keep the message short and simple.

Avoid sounding desperate and ask her for another date.

Don’t worry if she doesn’t agree, you can ask her out some other day. If you do not have much luck with her or you work from home then use dating websites to get dates, they work like crazy when you know what you’re doing. 🙂

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