
The True Story Behind
Insider Internet Dating
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Hey there, my name is Dave...
The purpose of this site is to act as a resource and launching pad to help you attract and date the kind of women online you deserve and desire.
For me, it’s about giving back as well as saying thank you to a community that has been so damn good to me.
For you… It’s about attracting the woman (or women) you desire, in a way that makes them pursue you because you are "the prize".
You know, when I started my little site back in 2005, I had no clue that it would become the most popular online dating resource and blog in the world.
All the attention all over the internet totally trips me out, but I guess it's a good thing... We only grow when we step out of our comfort zone ...right?
I've been featured and quoted in publications like Double Your Dating, The Wall Street Journal, Vanity Fair Magazine and Playboy and several other publications. But it wasn't always pretty flowers, puppy dogs and candy sprinkles…
Sure, I'll accept the occassional opportunity to be interviewed by one of the big magazines... but fame is NOT my thing.
I never wanted to be a "guru"... I never wanted to be in the public eye... I just wanted to help a few men and show them that the 'dream' really was possible.
This may surprise you, but... I wasn't born naturally good with women, in fact, I was downright horrible with women for many years.
Before discovering Insider Internet Dating...
I Was Your Typical AFC
(Average Frustrated Chump)
In high school I was very shy and unsocial. Things were so bad, I went to my high school prom ALONE ...and if I ever had anything with a girl, usually it was just because she happened to be either extremely drunk, or she started talking to me.
I looked everywhere for dating advice... and all I found was some lame bullshit telling me to do these magic tricks, 800 step methods, dressing up like a clown, remembering some weird hypnotize women voodoo thing
...and guess what?
NONE OF IT WORKED!
One night I got sick and tired of not knowing how to meet women and I was sick and tired of being sick and tired. I couldn't stand the idea that I was going to spend the rest of my life not knowing how to date the kind of women that I wanted.
I wasn’t going to quit. I knew there HAD to be a way.
Problem was, I was too shy to approach women on the street.
I needed to figure out a way to use my "smart" mind to meet women WITHOUT facing the fear of in-person rejection.
Online dating was that way.
I became a mad scientist... researching every secret pick up technique in existence, learning everything there is to know about attracting women ONLINE and about the things that cause women to feel attracted to men.
I spent well over $10,000 buying all this stuff - raking up my credit cards like crazy.
I studied all the books, courses, and seminars I could find, and then... took a "scientific approach" and started running "tests" to see what kind of emails got the best responses, what kinds of pictures women seemed to like the best, and the best ways to get women to meet up with me in person.
I kept track of the results and constantly fine-tuned my emails and profiles to make them work better.
I figured out some
really amazing things...
Like which day of the week to email a woman to have the best possible chance of her writing you back (It's not when you think).
Before long I figured out some fantastic tricks that all but guaranteed a woman would respond to my emails.
But I didn't stop there...
I went on to figure out how to get a woman to respond to me WITH HER PHONE NUMBER... almost every time.
Soon I was getting DOZENS of phone numbers (not emails) a week from beautiful single women, but this still wasn't enough... I needed to figure out exactly what to say on the phone to get a woman to meet me in person.
It wasn't long before my email-to-date ratio was sky high.
But then I ran into a...
umm... "little" problem.
Although I was meeting women and getting dates on a consistent basis... some of the women I was meeting ended up looking a little bit "different" in person then they had in their online photos.
And a few of them looked A LOT different... I'll say no more.
So I came up with a SCREENING SYSTEM to ensure that I didn't waste my time meeting women I wouldn't find physically or emotionally attractive.
Eventually I "cracked the code" and figured out a simple step-by-step system that any guy can use to meet of women online... consistenly and easily.
At this point, I was like, “Hmm... maybe I should show this to some friends and see if it works for them too.”
So, I showed this to a few of my friends and the crazy thing is... it worked extremely well for them too!
Anyway, next thing you know,
things got a little... CRAZY
I guess through word-of-mouth it became viral... my friends started telling THEIR friends about it... Who told some of their friends about it...
Who told some people...
All of a sudden guys from all over the world are BOMBARDING my inbox asking me about it...
Then... David DeAngelo is interviewing me asking about it...
Then ...he invites me to speak in several of his ‘Double Your Dating’ programs to talk about it.
Next thing you know, Vanity Fair is calling...
ABC Nightline is calling...
The Wall Street Journal is calling...
Even ...PLAYBOY is calling!
All asking me about it and to learn exactly what I was doing to hook up with so many women.
(So you can understand why I was worried.)
Obviously, THIS STUFF WORKS.
And the chances are very good that when use it, you'll attract a LOT more women.
But lets face it, I can share all of my women-getting, attraction-generating tactics with you… but if you don’t actually “DO” anything with them… the odds are stacked HIGH against you.
These days I get dozens of numbers and dates each week... without ever leaving the house.
I've even figured out some great ways to get women to come over to my place right away.
If you're a man who wants more success with women online, this website will show you strategies you can apply to your own online dating today that will help you meet a lot more women in a lot less time.
By applying these simple strategies you will literally dominate your local area… while your competition fights for all the average women. They'll be working their butts off begging for dates while you've got a new date with another hottie lined up every day this week.
It’s that simple...
These are solid online dating strategies that I didn't really wanna share with anyone… but so many people kept buggin' me about it that I decided to start this blog…
I look forward to helping you enjoy the hell outta your online dating...
And who knows, maybe you'll find what you're looking for. :-)
Talk soon!

P.S. I am in the trenches just like you still learning new things with each passing day. There is nothing wrong with making a mistake as long as we learn from them and that’s what I am here to share with you.
Enjoy :-)
The Insider Internet Dating System Includes:
1. The Insider Internet Dating Audio/Video Training Program

This is the complete, fully detailed training program that contains everything you need to know to follow, implement, and succeed with Insider Internet Dating...
Plus ...you'll get my simple "Cut And Paste" email templates you can put to work for you immediately
2. 'Feet To The Fire' Q&A Session
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I did a live Q+A training so participants could ask specific questions about using IID and YOU get to eavesdrop on this call...
That means whatever you have a question about on any of the modules, chances are somebody else already had the same question and I answered it personally.
All you have to do is listen to this recording, and it’s like sitting in on a private Mastermind meeting between me and other guys just like yourself.
Of course, if for some reason you still have questions, you'll have access to my support team and we'll make sure you get squared away so its all good. (The last thing I would ever do is leave one of my students hanging...)
3. The PDF Workbook Manual
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I created transcripts of the entire course for easy referencing.
No more rewinding, no more fast-forwarding, no more pausing...
If you want to read, re-read or study any part of my course, you can now refer to this handy transcript
This way if you are REALLY in a hurry and don’t have time to watch all the videos, you can still get a complete comprehensive training just from the workbook manual alone.
4. The IID Success Blueprint
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I want to make sure you’re not making any of the same mistakes I see people making time and time again, so I created a step-by-step process map that will give you the EXACT set of steps to attract women online in a matter of days.
It's literally a step-by-step blueprint for attracting women online and getting phone numbers
5. The JUMPSTAR2T Quickstart Guide
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I want to make sure you get the most results from this program in the shortest amount of time - so I also created a Quick-Start guide that makes it brain-dead easy for you to get started fast.
Many guys have only used this guide alone to get women messaging them within a matter of hours.
6. “Social Magnetism” Personality Profiling
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In this audio training I talk with a friend of mine, who also happens to be a board-certified Psychiatrist, author, television and radio personality, and one of the most sought-after dating/relationship and psychology expert resources for journalists worldwide
You'll learn how to use his patent pending personality profiling system (that works better than anything you've ever seen) - to attract the right women ONLINE
Once you learn this, you'll be able to spot the EXACT type of women you're most likely to be compatible with, within MOMENTS of reading her profile
7. The Naked Truth About Online Dating
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In this audio training, you'll learn how to attract women online INSTEAD OF pursuing them - including ways to create an emotional connection with the women you want, without doing anything strange, weird or creepy...
More importantly, you'll learn how to shift your mindset so you become a TOTAL NATURAL when it comes to attracting the most desirable women online
8. The “30-Minute Meetup”
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When you listen to this audio training you'll learn EXACTLY how to setup quick 20-30 minute “get-togethers” with the women you meet online that will either end with her back at your place...
Or will leave the her desperately wanting more of you, or, at the very least, save you from spending time and money on a woman you didn’t like)







